Friday, July 6, 2012

Home is where...

John and I have done a lot of talking over the past 5-6 years about where we eventually want to end up geographically. While we are enjoying our time in central Illinois, we know we won't be here forever. We don't know if it'll be in 3 or 15  years, but eventually we would like to be somewhere else. Somewhere cooler, drier, and with a lot more space. I don't just mean space as in property, but just less humans per square mile. We don't have much of a problem with humans...we just prefer smaller crowds. John has always been drawn towards the West - specifically Moab, Utah. I have always been drawn towards the North - specifically around Duluth, Minnesota. While we will be happy no matter where we are so long as we have each other, its a difficult decision to make. 


My biggest issue lately is the matter of family. I have lived in central Illinois for almost 9 years now. I never thought I'd still be here after college. Of course I had to go and fall in love with a man that decided to stay here. Its not a bad place really. Besides the flat lands and the heat/humidity combo in the summer, there are great schools and a lot of opportunities that go along with living in a University town. I love Gavyn's doctor, I love my parents group, and I love that I know so many of the local farmers. There is one rather big problem though. We have no family within a 2.5 hour radius of us. Yes, this is a problem for me. I grew up having Sunday dinner with my Grandparents and Aunt and Uncle that lived in the next town over. While I never had a big family, we were generally able to see them whenever we wanted to. So now my family is in the Chicago suburbs, John's family is in Missouri, my brother in Colorado, and I have so many friends dispersed over the US and the WORLD that I can't even count. Sure, we have some friends here, but they aren't Sunday dinner friends. 


We spent the majority of the past week in Colorado visiting my brother and the mountains. My brother is talking about coming back to the Midwest in the next few years. That would be great, except he wants to head Northward, such as Wisconsin. This is still better than Colorado, though. However, what if we decide to move out West? Then will we be the outcasts? I want my children to know their family. To feel loved by more than just their parents in a physical way. So how do we chose our final destination? Should we just go where we please and let others come to us? Or do we try to find a place as close as we can to everybody, close to an airport, and buy an extremely fuel-efficient car? Hopefully the answer will unfold itself over time. 


We had a stellar time in Colorado. It was so good to see some friends that we haven't seen in a couple years. Gavyn got to meet some very important people in our lives, even though they live far away. We also got a break from the heat in Estes Park, where we relaxed by the rolling river and got to enjoy some time in the Mountains. Since pictures are worth a thousand words...here they are without further delay. 


Watching our plane come in at Ohare Airport

Forget the toys, I'll take this box

Can you catch a turkey with a flyswatter? Turns out the answer is no. 

Getting the pig all ready to go in the ground

There is always a good audience

Gavyn did a lot of throwing rocks in water the past few days. He has perfected his throw quite a bit. 

Red cheeks...it was hot!

Having some dinner with Nana. 

Uncle Ryan showing Gavyn a turkey

Nice turkey

Early mornin' on the farm

Piggies! 

Putting some rocks and sticks in a beer bottle

John, Ryan in the background Pablo, and Tom....I  love all these men so much. 

Hanging out with Sara

Pulling the pig!

You have to work for your meals

They are ready to dig in!

Mmmmm

Sara and Mike

Ma washing dishes, as usual

Getting some cuddles after nap

In Estes Park and playing in a sprinkler!

Hi!

Joe and Ma

Our little cabin at Castle Mountain Lodge

Me and my boy

The river (where's Gavyn?)

Nana with Gavyn

Hydrating

There is some significance to this peak....John knows ;)

Can't resist water

Luckily, everybody thought he was just the cutest thing. 

Taking a break from shopping in Estes Park

Playing in the water and finding rocks

On a windy mountain :)

Gavyn's "high chair"

More rocks

Playing with Dada in the river



My blue-eyed boy

Poor kid fell on his hands. He is still cute when he cries.